"The book covers an important topic. I can’t stress this enough, I’ve seen so many ridiculous first contacts online, that I shouldn’t even get started. The chapter, “What Dominant Women Are Really Looking For”, is perfect and the question, “Should you relocate” is important, too.Overall, a solid read. As a suggestion, I’d like to see suggestions for FemDom forums, groups, and the like. Everything else was great – Jak, please keep writing!" - Caroline Peel (Author of The Femdom Relationship Guide)
About The Book
Are you desperately craving a fulfilling femdom relationship with a dominant woman or Mistress?
Have you been searching for years to find a Mistress with little to no success?
Are you fed up with continually messaging dominant women and getting no responses?
If you answered yes to any of these questions, then this book is going to become your new femdom dating bible. I’m going to show you how to find your dream woman and fulfil all of your wildest submissive fantasies.
This book is for submissive guys who are serious about finding a femdom relationship with a Mistress. Whether you are new to this lifestyle or you have been trying for some time to meet the right woman; if you feel that what you have been doing so far hasn’t worked for you, then this book is for you.
What You'll Learn
- How to determine your ideal relationship
- Why most men fail to find a dominant woman
- What dominant women are really looking for
- How to be the man that every woman wants
- Why women don’t respond to your messages
- How to message women and get replies
- Where to find dominant women online and offline
- How to create a winning online dating strategy
- How to create a profile women love
- How to write a personal ad that gets responses
- + Lots more
"I loved this book! I read this out of curiosity as a dominant woman who is often confused why so many submissive men just don't get it. We are clearly out numbered when you look at the ratio of sub men/dom women so it's not unusual to be regularly hitting the delete button when swamped with requestes from guys online and their inappropriate comments straight off the bat.
Jak sounds very well informed and experienced in understanding both sides here and has some great recommendations that guys can easily introduce to their approach to finding a dominant women. If everything in this book was applied and a guy approached me, he would definitely stand out from the rest! A must read for all you subs out there who are having no luck."- Miss A
"This is such a cool idea! I really like how you’re focusing on what submissives want out of a relationship prior to entering one. I think it’s easy for us guys to get so excited about finding a dominant partner that we don’t always think about if it’s a good match. Being able to think about what you want (including limits) and communicating that to your partner can only help things in the long run." - strikeandcuremyheart
About the Author
Growing up was a struggle; being "different" and not participating in the same sexual endeavours as my friends. My early relationships failed because of my love for Femdom; despite the best efforts of my vanilla girlfriends, they couldn’t accept my desire to be dominated. I ended up feeling alone, ashamed and hopeless about ever finding a woman with similar interests.
In my 20s, I finally dated a dominant woman who was able to fulfil my needs but riddled with self-esteem issues; I couldn't accept myself as a submissive. I didn’t embrace my desires and I was ashamed, embarrassed and apologetic. My issues put a strain on the relationship, which quickly failed and I learned a hard lesson: If I wanted a happy and fulfilling relationship, I had to accept my fetishes and stop seeking approval and reassurance from women.
I recognised that a lot of submissive men have similar problems and I set up The Femdomist to help men develop sexual confidence. This book helps me to fulfil my mission of helping submissive guys all over the world to find the women of their dreams.
I’m going to share everything I’ve learned about finding and dating dominant women based on fifteen years of failed and successful relationships. If you’re questioning if what I’m about to show you will work – I now have an incredibly fulfilling kinky life, packed with experiences and incredible sex without any shame, guilt or self-confidence issues.
I’m in a long-term relationship with an incredibly beautiful, dominant woman who shares my love for femdom and who fulfils all of my fantasies and desires. I’m so comfortable with my sexuality that I share it with my friends; sometimes I even bring them to fetish clubs with me!
"The book itself is a solid starting point. It will give you an idea how things should be done and you will ultimately have to tailor the advice to your own situation to find the success you want. The book is short, quick, and it gets you pointed in the right direction." - KinkedRib